Friday, August 20, 2010

Men Talk More Than Females

So over the last few months I've come to realize that men run their mouths more than females. What made me want to address this in a blog, you ask? Well...one of my best friends/roommates (we will call her Pink...you may remember her from blogworld) is attracted to this guy (we will call him Mr. S) who has a girlfriend and just so happens to be cousins w/Young Gent. She has already made up in her mind that she is NOT going to fuck him, but he still comes around and blazes with us.

Today Pink calls me, and reveals that all day she has been trying to refrain from telling me that Mr. S is supposed to be coming over this weekend while I'm gone. What she didn't know was that Mr. S had already told Young Gent, and Young Gent had already told me! So her "juicy" tea she had to spill was ruined b/c Mr. S had already run his mouth! Now he's DEF not getting any poon smh. #FAIL

I had a similar situation happen to me recently. I was asked about someone I had fucked back in the day. The question was, "Was it good?"....My response, "It was mediocre, but we were both drunk, so I can't say it was bad. I did it more than once so it couldnt have been TOO bad". Well when I said this I was in the company of one of his friends. That friend went back to one of their mutual friends, and told him, and that friend went to the guy I said it about, and made it seem as if I said his sex was terrible, then I ended up getting cursed out, and some more shit!


WHY DO MEN TALK SO DAMN MUCH?!



I could have sworn women were the ones known to be unable to hold water! Smh...there's a lil bitchassness in a lot of men, and they're alot more emotional than I ever realized...I just gotta keep it real. Shut the heck up sometimes, and get out your feelings #imjustsayin!


*hugs and love*
-iCandy

Sidenote: I'm superman stoned at work =)


Thursday, August 19, 2010

All Things Considered


Well well well...it's been quite some time since I blessed the blogworld w/a new post. Alas, the wait is over...


Let's jump right in. This blog is going to be ALL OVER THE PLACE (I think)!! I will start by addressing my current "love life"...So...I asked CB 1 question that changed my entire mind frame: Has your heart EVER went pitty pat, or have you EVER gotten butterfly flutters in your tummy at the thought of me? I asked for an honest answer...one that wasn't going to spare my feelings. The response: I've never felt butterflies, but you do have feelings for you that a basic chick couldn't give me.


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Now...this statement (upon further inspection) reveals that CB is pretty much just trying to keep me in the pocket.


The latter half of that statement reminds me of a pure player, and I don't wanna think of CB that way, but it is what it is. Do I believe CB does feel a lil extra for me...yes! Do I feel CB feels extra to the point that we could ever be anything beyond friends...NO! Does CB want to straight up say that...NO! CB wants to keep me dangling with the possibility that one day we could be. With that being said, I can't keep halting advancements w/Young Gent in hopes that CB will come around - Sure I've said this before, but I don't think I really MEANT it before, and I half-way don't think I mean it now (smh @ myself for this gargantuan crush). CB seems to have some sort of little hold on me. Something about CB is just so undeniably spectacular, but why try to invest in something that doesn't seem like it'll have a positive payout in the end? Clearly, the response given to the question I asked was all I needed to accept that fact that CB and I will NEVER BE ANYTHING more than friends and maybe a fuck. It's sad, but true.

Sidenote: CB if you're reading this...I will ALWAYS want you in a way that you don't want me, but I'm being a woman...an adult woman, and accepting that. I don't want you to string me along anymore cuz I'm very hip to game, and I know you don't think you're playing me, but you're playing me. Our friendship means more to me than my crush on you does...so...I'll always be ya HPBOFA (can u figure out that textcronym lol), and I'll always have ya back.

Alright blog fam...that's it for me. This wasn't as all over the place as I thought it would be.

*hugs and love*
-iCandy